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Books of My Life

How it works

One question a week. A year later, a book.

Wren texts or calls your parent with one good question each week. They just talk. We turn it into a hardcover book.

An older man smiling as he replies to a text message on his porch

Start to finish

Six steps, and only the first one is yours.

After that, Wren does the asking, our team does the making, and your parent just talks.

  1. Step 1. You, today

    You give the gift

    Pick a plan, then tell us a little about the person you’re giving it to.

    • Choose a plan. Heirloom ($399) or Legacy ($799).
    • Tell us about them. Where they grew up, who’s who in the family, and anything Wren should go easy on.
    • Pick a start date. Their birthday, a holiday, or this Sunday.
    • Add the people who’ll follow along. Brothers, sisters, grandkids.
    A father unwrapping the gift box from his daughter
    Some people tell them in person first. Some let Wren be the surprise.
  2. Step 2. Their first week

    Wren says hello

    On the start date, Wren sends a first message. It says who set this up, says plainly that it’s an AI, and asks which day suits them.

    Then it’s one question a week. They answer when they like, in a line or in pages. Wren reads what they said and asks what a good listener would ask next.

    However they like to talk

    Text message
    Plain texts, on any mobile phone.
    WhatsApp
    If that’s where the family already chats.
    Phone call
    Wren calls at a time they pick. They just talk.
    Landline
    Yes, the one on the kitchen wall.

    All they need is a phone. No app, no password, no account.

    WWren · Text message

    Sunday 9:31 AM

    Hi Peggy, this is Wren. Anne set this up for you as a birthday present.
    I'm an AI, not a person. My job is to ask about your life and listen. One question a week, answered whenever you like.
    Is Sunday a good day for you?

    12:48 PM

    Anne did mention this. Sunday is fine after church
    So you are a computer?
    I am. What you tell me goes into a book for your family, and a real person reads it before anything is printed.
    Well alright. Go ahead and ask
    Here's the first one. What's the first thing you remember?
    My fathers boots on the porch. He came home from the war when I was 4 and I didnt know who he was
    I hid behind the stove for a week
    Behind the stove! What finally got you to come out?
    He sat on the kitchen floor every night and played Red River Valley on his harmonica. Never said a word to me. Just played
    By Friday I was in his lap
    That's a patient man. Is there a photo of him from back then? You can just take a picture of the print with your phone.
    Hold on its in the hall closet

    1:27 PM

    A damaged 1940s photo before restoration
    Mama and Daddy 1943 before he shipped out. Its in rough shape sorry
    Can you see it ok
    Clear as day. What a handsome pair.
    The coffee ring was not me
    I believe you. We'll mend the crack and the stain before it goes in the book. Same time next Sunday?
    Yes. Thank you dear. Love, Peggy

    Sunday 9:30 AM

    Morning, Peggy. Did your father ever play that harmonica for anyone else?
    SamplePeggy’s first week with Wren
    An older woman laughing during a phone call in her armchair

    Rather talk than type? Wren can call instead. The call goes into the book just the same.

  3. Step 3. Whenever a story needs one

    Photos, straight from the shoebox

    When a story mentions a photo, Wren asks for it. They can hold their phone over the old print, take a picture and send it right in the chat.

    Or they can mail us the originals. We scan them carefully and send them back.

    Either way, we restore every photo they share. Fading, creases, torn corners, the odd coffee ring.

    Weathered hands photographing an old family print with a phone
    A damaged 1940s photo before restorationBefore
    The same photo, restoredAfter

    An example restoration: the photo Peggy sent in her first week (sample).

  4. Step 4. All year

    The family follows along

    Everyone you invited can read new stories as they come in. It’s a nice thing to find on a Tuesday.

    If someone has always wondered about something, they can suggest a question. Wren works it into a conversation when the moment is right, and says who asked.

    Suggested by the family

    Sample
    • “Ask her about the Patsy Cline tape on the Grand Canyon trip.”

      Tommy, her son

    • “Did she ever get in trouble at school? Like real trouble?”

      Lily, her granddaughter

    A few Sundays later

    Tommy asked me to ask you about a Patsy Cline tape. Something about Oklahoma?
    Oh he would
    That tape got stuck in the deck and played for 900 miles. Walt knew every word by Amarillo
  5. Step 5. When you’re ready

    We make the book, the website and the reenactments

    Print whenever you like. Many families print after three to six months and keep going for a second volume.

    • The book. Our editors shape the conversations into chapters, in your parent’s own words, with their restored photos. You both read the draft and approve it before anything is printed.
    • The website. A private site with their chapters, a timeline, their photos and, with Legacy, recordings of their voice.
    • The reenactments. Cinematic recreations of moments nobody photographed, built from the details they remembered. Always labelled as recreations.
    An open memoir showing a chapter with a restored family photograph
    Recreation: the night Peggy met Walter at the diner, 1959Recreation

    “It was pouring rain and this tall boy came in soaked to the bone, glasses all fogged up, and ordered coffee, black, no sugar.”

    A recreation made from Peggy’s story (sample). Not a real photograph.

  6. Step 6. The day it arrives

    Books on the table, website in the group chat

    The hardcover books come to your door. The website goes live, and you invite whoever you like.

    Then someone opens a book at the table and reads a chapter out loud, and a story nobody had heard before gets told twice in one night.

    Three generations around a holiday table passing a memoir hand to hand

Questions Wren might ask

Openers, not a questionnaire.

Each week starts with one question like these. What comes next depends on what they say.

01The early years

  • What did your house smell like when you were small?
  • Who did you run to when you were in trouble?
  • What did a Saturday look like when you were eight?

02Growing up

  • What was your first job, and what did you buy with the first paycheck?
  • Which song takes you straight back to being seventeen?
  • Who was the first person you were sweet on?

03Love, work and family

  • When did you know they were the one? Or did you?
  • What was the hardest year, and what got you through it?
  • What did you get right as a parent that nobody noticed?

04Looking back

  • What’s something you changed your mind about?
  • Which ordinary day would you happily live again?
  • What do you want your great-grandchildren to know about you?

They can skip any question, or ask Wren for a different one. The family can add their own, too.

Ready when they are

The first question is the hardest one to ask. Let Wren ask it.

From $399. No app for them to learn. Just a phone and someone who wants to listen.

SamplePeggy and the Albright family are a sample, not a real customer.